The obvious answer is – Yes, of course, they do. We use mobile devices, such as cell phones and tablets, to send messages, emails, photos and voice messages to our friends, family, work colleagues and others. Mobile devices can provide us with a lot of information.

But they can also affect our communication negatively!

Physically, using mobile devices can affect us.  Prolonged use can lead to –

It can also affect our sleep.   Very simply put, biologically, when we see blue light, we think it is daylight.  When we see the blue light on our phones, this can make us think it is time to be awake. So looking at phones during the night can affect our sleep.

How does all that affect communication? Well, if we are using phones a lot so they have a physical impact, we are obviously spending a lot of time on them, rather than communicating in the real world.  If we are tired, have headaches or any other physical symptoms, this can affect how we communicate as well. We might feel less like going out or spending time physically with others. 

Phones can be useful to parents to keep track of where their children are.  However, in romantic or other relationships, some people might use phones to keep track of their partner.  This is a much less positive use of devices.  Stalkers and criminals have also been known to make use of surveillance devices and position trackers on people’s phones. This can obviously, potentially, have a negative impact on the relationship as a whole.

In the past, people didn’t have phones or they had landlines only. Mobile phones are useful in an emergency.  We have a device with us to call another person or the emergency services for help. So they are useful when we are under physical threat.

BUT they also increase the risk of physical threat to us at times. If we are walking around, oblivious to our surroundings because we are staring at a phone, we might bang into a lamppost, or trip over, or even worse, not realise that someone is close behind us and ready to cause us harm.  Being aware of our surroundings is an important aspect of our communication and awareness of the world around us.

Using cell devices can affect how we communicate with others in the real world.   It can seriously affect our eye contact with others.

Our eyes can be used as a social signal. I’m bored, disinterested, happy, friendly, flirty, tired etc.  But eye contact is far more than that.  It is essential for complex human connections. When people make eye contact, their neural activity synchronises, which improves their communication and understanding.

People who avoid eye contact often find it hard to develop and maintain interpersonal relationships.

Neurodivergent individuals who find eye contact difficult can find this a serious issue. 

Have you ever sat in a café or restaurant and looked at the people around you?  How many of them are looking at devices rather than talking to each other?

Walk around your local town or shopping centre, again, how many people are staring at their devices?

Firstly, they distract us.  Staring at our phones takes our attention away from face-to-face conversation.  It means that there is less eye contact and our engagement with the other person or people is reduced.  Sitting there, trying to talk to another person while they stare at their phone can be very frustrating. 

It can also show disrespect to others, or a lack of attention.

Secondly, people can hold their phone close to their face, which makes direct eye contact with other people even more difficult.

Eye contact us important for our communication with others.  Looking at someone while they talk shows that we are paying attention. Staring at our phone doesn’t.

Thirdly, sometimes people do use mobile devices as a way to avoid communication. A study found that women, in particular, sometimes use mobile devices as a way to avoid eye contact with strangers.

Fourthly, staring at our phones can affect our posture. This in turn, also affects our eye contact as we tend to be more stooped.

Using mobile devices is therefore affecting our communication and social connections.

Eye contact is important for human communication and interaction. Therefore, ways must be found to address this reduction in eye contact due to the use of mobile devices. For example, limiting use of mobile devices.  This is up to the individual, but also society at large.

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